I understand these perspectives and in many ways I agree with them..
Often, Mother’s day hurts more than it helps, and those of us who have lost mothers or who never had one in the first place understand that with sharp clarity. We go into this holiday feeling like the outcasts, the ones with no one to celebrate, no one to celebrate us.
Anne Lammott said it best (have a I gushed about her enough lately? Get used to it.)
“But my main gripe about Mother’s Day is that it feels incomplete and imprecise. The main thing that ever helped mothers was other people mothering them; a chain of mothering that keeps the whole shebang afloat.”
There are so many people who kept me afloat after my Mom died and while she going through her long process of disappearing into depression. Continue reading